Tue. Jul 5th, 2022

A woman has elaborated on how her groom’s long list of demands and insults has led to her and other bridesmaids dropping out of the wedding.

The 20-year-old opened up about their quarrel on Reddit’s ‘Am I the A ** hole’ forum and said the 23-year-old bride-to-be – whom she referred to as ‘Katie’ – has banned her bridesmaids from getting engaged or pregnant because it is ‘her’ year.

Katie also expects her bridesmaids to pay a total of $ 2,000 each for her wedding events, including buying new clothes for herself.

The Reddit user, whose handle is un / Extreme_Demand4217, said she was asked to be a ‘replacement’ bridesmaid when she was pregnant, and was excited until she learned more about the requirements.

Reddit user u / Extreme_Demand4217 revealed that her friend 'Katie' has so far gotten five people to drop her wedding due to her unreasonable expectations (stock photo)

Reddit user u / Extreme_Demand4217 revealed that her friend ‘Katie’ has so far gotten five people to drop her wedding due to her unreasonable expectations (stock photo)

She shared a list of the bride's claims on the forum 'Am I the A ** hole' and said she was even considering dropping out of the bridal party

She shared a list of the bride’s claims on the forum ‘Am I the A ** hole’ and said she was even considering dropping out of the bridal party

“Since I joined, five people have dropped out because of her attitude and high expectations,” she wrote. ‘Katie’s sad because of everyone who drops out and the amount of people she’s thrown out.

“She wants everyone to drop everything this year for her wedding,” he added, noting that Katie had “kicked a personal companion out to get engaged.”

The woman shared a list of Katie’s expectations, starting with the rule that no one should get pregnant or engaged because these life events would ‘overshadow her wedding.’

“You need to respond quickly and immediately and throughout the day,” she continued. ‘Everything for the bride has to be paid for by the bridesmaids on the bachelorette party.’

On top of that, Katie told her bridesmaids that they had to buy new clothes for every night with bachelorette parties, bridal shows and rehearsal dinners because she did not want them wearing anything they were already photographed in.

They also need to buy ‘different bridesmaids pajamas for each night on the bachelorette party’ and have their nails made professionally for each event.

She also shared screenshots of some of Katie's demanding text messages for their bridal group chat to emphasize.

She also shared screenshots of some of Katie's demanding text messages for their bridal group chat to emphasize.

She also shared screenshots of some of Katie’s demanding text messages to their bridal group chat to highlight

Although the wedding is not until September, she will have the new outfits for each event ordered ASAP, and they ‘must also give the bride a gift for each event.’

“Bridesmaids must spend the night for the bridal shower and the night before the wedding,” and “all guests must adhere to a strict formal dress code,” she added.

The Reddit user said the rough estimate for everything she wanted was around $ 2,000 per share. person ‘at the low end’. She noticed that she was supportive at first, but that changed quickly.

“I’m two weeks postpartum and Katie came to take pictures of my baby’s newborn after I hired her,” she explained. ‘When she came, she insulted my weight several times, reminding me to lose my baby weight before her wedding.’

The woman said her friend then continued to insult her newborn daughter, saying ‘it was sad’, she looked like her ‘hillbilly’ father and insinuated that her dark skin color was a ‘bad thing’.

“My girlfriend is half native, and when I told her that, she really quickly withdrew her comment,” she recalled. ‘But she started making fun of my skin color because I’m redheaded and pretty pale.

A majority of the commentators called Katie a 'bridal zilla' and a bad friend, while urging the original poster to drop out of the wedding immediately

A majority of the commentators called Katie a ‘bridal zilla’ and a bad friend, while urging the original poster to drop out of the wedding immediately

‘She keeps commenting on Facebook posts of my daughter about her appearance, and even [though] I’ve blocked her from seeing the posts that still haunt me. ‘

The Reddit user wanted to know if she was wrong because she would drop out of the wedding and never talk to her friend again, saying her boyfriend thinks she is ‘overreacting’.

She also shared screenshots of some of Katie’s demanding text messages for their bridal group chat to emphasize.

A majority of the commentators called Katie a ‘bridal zilla’ and a bad friend, while urging the original poster to drop out of the wedding right away.

“This list has ‘bridezilla’ written all over it, plus five people dropping out should be a red flag,” one person wrote. ‘It’s her wedding, but it’s your mental health. Drop out and go LC when s ** t hits the tab and she sends the flying monkeys to harass you. ‘

‘There’s something mentally wrong with her that she at all thinks is a little acceptable,’ said another agreed.

‘Release NOW! And I would also drop her as a “friend”, advised another. ‘I thought no after reading the list of claims and that was before I got to the other insults. Does she want you to pay for her wedding dress and reception too? ‘

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